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It's not sexual, necessarily. Many times, I can be totally turned on and have sex with him. It will be very satisfying, but the next day, I still won't be right. I will still need that, sometimes I don't realize it till after we have made love and then he spanks me and then we have to make love again!

It's not necessarily about making me feel obedient. I can feel very obedient and still need a spanking.

Sometimes I just need him to take posession of my body and do something to it that I don't entirely like and nothing does that as well as spanking. Yes, he can demonstrate his authority without ever touching me. He can do it with a look across the table or across the room. Is he dominating in bed? Oh, you betcha! But, for some reason, nothing works quite like spanking for making me feel feminine, owned, protected. Maybe it is just an endorphin reaction. I don't know if our relationship would work quite so well if we did not have the DD part.

I get frustrated with both all the talk of spanking as well as the discounting of the importance of spanking. I only like to talk about spanking to a certain extent. I mean, no matter how important it is to our relationship, it is still just spanking and mostly a physical thing. I can only read discussions of the mechanics of it for so long and I have almost no interest in spanking stories as erotica (which is what some DD sites come off as, really) except when I am in the very specific mood. On the other hand, I don't think you necessarily have to discount the spanking component to talk about the emotional aspects of being Taken In Hand. You just don't necessarily have to talk about spanking. I also think it is very interesting to talk about the emotional aspects of spanking, but, again, only to a certain extent or magnitude, rather.

Anyway, Tev, I just wanted to let you know that you are not the only odd person on this site. Spanking changes my feelings and behavior as well and it is very important to our relationship.

Otter*

PS If we are *both* odd persons, does that actually make us *even* ? LOL

"The moment that I looked into your eyes, you owned me."

• Kenny Chesney